Love yourself & be happy..

Remember if you want to be respected by others, you must first respect yourself? It's the same with love. If you want to be loved by others, you must first love yourself. What's past is done & gone... OVER... No point crying over spilled milk, no point spending your days thinking about stuff that cannot be undone. Cos that is a total waste of your time & effort. Instead, do more fruitful stuff like participating in activities that allow you to meet & interact with more people. Try salsa! Haha..

Happiness is created, it does not happen to you out of nowhere or falls from the sky. I'm not saying it's gonna be easy. It's gonna be very hard, it's gonna take a lot of effort & even courage to step out of the current situation & make changes. You need to let go of the past, purge all the toxic events & memories from your life. We can't grow if we keep holding on to the past.

For myself, I find that spending time along to reflect really works. Be it going to the beach to relax.. or nursing a nice warm cuppa in a cafe on a sunny afternoon & do some people-watching.. or take a break & escape to a simple beach resort in Tioman / Batam / Bintan alone to reflect on life.. The idea is to spend quality time with yourself, relax & think things through, think about what you want / who you really are. Discover yourself, don't let anything or anyone in this world change who you are or who you wanna be. Be true to yourself, that's the only way to be truly happy.

If there's anyone who doesn't know how to appreciate you, remember it's their loss, not yours. You are not defined by the people around you, you define yourself. Take control. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you, you are not alone.

"The past is fixed, nothing you do now can change it. The present is yours to live & enjoy; the future if yours to shape & build." Quoted from Felicia The Philosopher, hahahahaha...